Question by roxyknox88: Should we offer to rent/lease-to-own or flat out buy my brother’s house? How should I state my approach?
Long story, I ‘ll try to make it short.
My boyfriend and I are in the market for a house. We have been working with a broker for 4 months on a home that the seller has decided to back out of due to a long drawn-out approval process (recent backup of lenders caused by new tax credit). There was a little snag with my boyfriend’s credit as well – too many accounts. The broker has switched “investors” and now says we are now approved up to K. If the current seller does not agree to proceed with sale, we are interested in buying my brother’s house.
Brother’s situation:
He and his wife are looking to spend less on a monthly payment.
He refinanced for k last year; the comparable home we were buying was k (minus k tax credit we would have received).
When I told him we were buying a home he said we should just buy his. He even suggested switching living arrangements with us (he would rent out apt and we would take over his home).
He has also said they want to relocate to a nearby city in the future.
My brother says now he hasn’t “put the house on the market just yet”. He is now unsure about leaving his home. I believe he does not want to lose out on profits from a future sale, but does not think he can afford to stay without a higher paying job. He has applied and will want to wait to hear back before deciding.
Our situation:
The loan will be under my boyfriend’s name alone.
We will both be contributing to monthly payments (he more than I).
We are currently paying 600/mo rent and my brother’s total payment with tax and insurance is 800.
This is a comfortable payment for us, but I would rather buy flat out than rent to own since we are approved now with low interest rate. Never know what could happen with rates in the future.
My conclusion/argument:
If we are able to buy the house:
We cannot go much over the payoff if any. We have just enough for down payment and closing costs.
My bro would probably take a loss or break even on the home, but at least he won’t lose the home completely. (have to check details on his refi..make sure it wouldnt be a short sale)
If we rent to own:
We would have to hire real estate atty for contract.
Rates may go up, employement may change..I do not wish to pay 800/mo and end up with nothing in the end.
If we are unable to purchase the home now, we will still have option to buy when credit or earnings are better.
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Either way my bro would be able to spend less on monthly payment and potentially save for another house.But if he gets a higher paying job, he can hold off and try to sell later.
Lets see…by renting he can save up to 0/mo
in 24 mo@0 he saves 00 toward his new home
I would like to present this argument to him in the near future.
I am unable to sleep so i am asking the YA community for help. lol
What is the best way to approach this situation? Please help 
Thank you for your answers so far.
To clarify, we have been living together for over a year and will be getting married in a few years.
I’m not going to try to force my brother to sell, just wanted to present the case. Thanks!
Best answer:
Answer by Sam
Your whole argument is moot, fact is your brother doesn’t want to sell right now.. Look elsewhere.
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